A Simple Gingerbread House Party

No tickets to the Nutcracker, no festive parties; no family Christmas dinner. For Miss T, all holiday traditions are being upended this year. Little N is too young to remember.

I wanted to plan a special holiday event to make up for the disappointment. My idea was a simple, gingerbread house party the kids could attend remotely.

Kids show off their gingerbread houses at the end of the party.
The grandkids and I made gingerbread houses over FaceTime for a fun holiday party.

The “gingerbread” is really graham crackers. As construction material, they’re practically prefab and the perfect size for little hands.

My two party guests are seven and four. You’ll have to consider ages and motor skills. Also, assess the kids’ capacity for patience because your house could collapse if you hurry it along when the icing is still wet. Then you’ll have to start over.

Candy, white tube icing, and cookie decorating sprinkles are used to make these houses constructed with graham cracker squares.
Here are houses that my family and I made during our FaceTime holiday party.

This can also a fun project for adults. Crafting gingerbread houses and listening to seasonal music might just get you into the spirit, even if you are facing the holidays alone.

The Basics of the Simple Gingerbread House

Simple "Gingerbread" houses under construction showing how the walls are put together and how the roof attaches.
Graham crackers in different stages of construction. Use this photo as a reference when you begin to assemble your first houses.

Here’s are the basics: You need five graham cracker squares for each house. Two half crackers are used for two sides of the house, two whole crackers cut in peaks make up the other two sides, and two whole crackers form the roof.

How five graham crackers make a house: two whole crackers are trimmed to peaks to form the front and back walls of the house, one cracker is cut in half for the two side walls, and two crackers are left whole for the roof.
All the parts you need to make one gingerbread house. The two whole squares form the roof.

It takes a bit of dexterity to hold the walls in place until the icing firms up. Don’t add the slanted roof until the walls are secure. (More details on construction below.)

The Gingerbread House Party Plan

Not necessary, but it's nice to send an invitation to your party. This one is made with a Cricut machine.
Optional, but it’s nice to send a handmade invitation–after all, it’s a party!
  • Set a date for your party. We held ours at 7 p.m. on a Saturday, after dinner. This gave us 1 1/2 hours to make the gingerbread houses before bedtime. Each child made one house and that was just enough to leave them entertained and satisfied.
  • Ensure that parents are on board to help with the construction; if an assist is not needed, parents should make their own gingerbread houses. This is a family event.
  • Purchase the supplies (see the materials list below). As a responsible grandparent, re-bag candy into smaller portions so kids don’t overindulge.
Sort the candy and give the kids only as much as you think they'll need, so they don't overeat.
Gumdrops, jelly beans and Smarties are repackaged in smaller quantities.
  • Make a gingerbread house in advance for each child so they can start decorating the pre-made one as they wait for the icing on their own construction project to dry.
  • Package all the supplies attractively. I put everything in a basket, tucked in the invitation, wrapped the basket in cellophane, and tied it with a bow.
Partially filled basket to send to the grandkids: icing, icing tips, and candy to decorate their gingerbread house.
Basket contents minus invitation and prepared gingerbread houses.
Also added to the basket are pre-made gingerbread houses and a party invitation for the online event.
Everything packed, wrapped in cellophane, and ready to go.
  • We delivered the basket to the grandkids on the morning of the party.

Upon getting the basket, the kids were super-excited, their father said. They couldn’t wait for party time!

Kids take instructions on the iPad; we work together remotely, enjoying each other's company online.
It’s amazing how we can feel connected via iPad. After I instructed the kids, we each set about building our houses.

How to Make a Gingerbread House

Materials Needed

  • Cardstock cut to the size of a graham cracker square (about 2 1/2 inches X 2 1/4 inches) for a pattern
  • 5 graham cracker squares for each house
  • 1 tube of white icing
  • A set of icing tips that fit your brand of icing (tips and tubes vary by brand)
  • Assorted colorful candies and sprinkles
  • Tube icing in assorted colors (optional)

Prepare the Construction Pieces

First, make a pattern for the high walls. Fold cardstock square in half, vertically. Bend the two upper corners of the paper to the vertical line to create a triangular top. (See photo below).

Sample of a pattern to cut the triangular tops to make the front and back walls.
The paper pattern is on the cracker, ready to cut with a serrated knife. Note that the dotted break line on the cracker runs horizontally.

Using the pattern, trim the top two corners of two graham cracker squares with a sharp knife or a serrated bread knife. Use a light, sawing motion to begin, then a little force to cut through the cracker. This will be for the front and back of the house.

Now cut 1 square in half along the dotted line. These two pieces will form the side walls.

Christmas tree decorating tips to try this year.

Assemble the House

Assemble the house by attaching the four walls, using icing on the edges as glue. Hold together until the icing firms up so the walls stand up without assistance. Be patient. If the walls collapse, add more icing and reattach. Let dry before attaching the roof.

To construct the house, pipe icing onto the two shorter side walls; attach the front and back walls at right angles to the side walls.
Squeeze the icing onto the two shorter side walls; attach the taller walls at right angles to the side walls.

For the roof, pipe icing along the edges of the eaves and the top of the side walls. Carefully balance one cracker square on one side of the house, resting it along the eaves, then balance the second cracker square on the other side of the house. Pipe icing where the two crackers join at the top. Hold together until icing seems to have firmed up, then set it aside to dry.

When icing is dry enough for the house to feel sturdy, add decorations using a dab of icing to secure.

Meanwhile, while their houses dry, let the children start decorating the pre-made houses your provided.

Note: all graham crackers do not perform the same. Honey Maid, the brand I happened to have on hand, was easy to score and break apart; other brands may be harder.

Kids at work designing their "gingerbread" houses.
Miss T and Little N decorate their houses. Even a child as young as four can do the decorating, with a little parental help.

Some Good Candy Choices

Here are some of the candies that worked well for our project:

  • Sour Streamers–flat strips of gummy candy can be cut into doors, wreaths, and other shapes using kitchen scissors.
  • Smarties–pastel candy wafers make great roof shingles.
  • Gumdrops add jewel colors; they can be cut crosswise with a small paring knife.
  • Peppermint Starlights, mini candy canes, or any other red-and-white-striped candy just says Christmas.
Some of the candy and cookie decorations I packed for the gingerbread house basket.
Cookie sprinkles, gumdrops, peppermint candy, Skittles, Sour Streamers, jelly beans, and Smarties are some of the candies we used.

Aftermath of a Party

Was it fun? You bet! So much so that the kids made more houses with the leftover materials the next day.

The grandkids made more houses the next day using their leftover candy.
The day-after creations.

What to do with the houses?

You can use them for table centerpieces or package them in cellophane bags, tie with ribbon, and give them as small gifts.

I’m going to keep mine on the cake plate and add tiny, battery-operated micro lights for my Christmas table centerpiece. Normally, I’d do something much more elaborate, but it will be dinner for just three this year and an iPad celebration with the family.

Simple gingerbread houses are stored under a cake dome. Another house is packaged in a cellophane bag for gift-giving.
Gingerbread houses under a cake dome; one bagged in cellophane, tied with ribbon, and ready to gift.

Or, as Little N did directly after the party, you can simply munch on them, right on the spot!

.

Don’t forget to sign up for my email newsletter! Every Wednesday, I’ll give you a new idea for an activity or insight to nurture the little ones in your life. Come visit!

4 Comments

  1. Steve on December 2, 2020 at 6:44 pm

    This ended up such a fun family time for our three generations. You did not see in the blog that our other son was also in on this Zoom event, so a special all family gathering. We’ll miss the hugs, but I think we might start a new Holiday tradition; the Annual Zoom Gingerbread House Party! And to have it right after Thanksgivng kicks off the Christmas season. Bring in the Santa hats!.



    • admin on December 3, 2020 at 3:27 pm

      Yes, everyone enjoyed the time together. And we might make it a new family tradition. But next time, we’ll gather in person!



  2. Mandy on December 5, 2020 at 10:15 pm

    I love this idea! Dreaming up ways to apply to my crowd. Thanks for posting.



    • admin on December 6, 2020 at 7:22 pm

      Thank you, Mandy. So glad you liked the idea. As long as the icing is dried, construction is very sturdy. If you have young kids, this is the part that takes a bit of patience.